I’m
sure you have heard these following phrases at some point in your
life:
“If
you can’t say anything nice, then don’t say anything at at!”
“Your
words are powerful, be careful with what you say.”
“Stop
acting like that, we aren’t in High School anymore!”
The
list of common phrases can go on, but I’d rather not bore you with
the rest lol ;P
We
mostly hear these statements coming from the adults around us. These
statements hold a lot of wisdom – in fact, I try to live by them
(trying be the operative word). Of course I fail miserably, who
doesn’t??
However,
let me just say this (no disrespect intended) :
1)
adults don’t seem to practice what they preach
2)
young adults don’t seem to heed those instructions anymore
Just
because we turn 21, doesn’t mean these statements are null and
void. We still need to adhere to them – no matter the
circumstance. That goes for adults too.
Being
a parent, having a job, paying off a house payment, etc., doesn’t
mean that the above statements don’t apply to you and yours.
Scripture
is very clear in how we are to speak.
Scripture
is very adamant in telling us how evil the tongue is.
Let
me ask all of you this:
when
you turn 21 – or become an “older & wiser” adult, do you
stop adhering to the teaching of Scripture?
Of
course you don’t! Forsaking the teaching of Scripture will cause
you to living a life of sin. Your tongue will take over, and you
will slay others with your words. You understand that the Word of
God is the blueprint (or instruction manual) in living a life that’s
pleasing to God.
How
do you think it makes God feel when He sees His children not
controlling their words?
Do
you realize, the statements I mentioned at the beginning of this post
are based off of Biblical principles?
Let’s
take a look in the Word shall …
Statement
1 (If
you can’t say anything nice,
then don’t say anything at at!)
:
“Don't
say anything that would hurt another person. Instead, speak only what
is good so that you can give help wherever it is needed. That way,
what you say will help those who hear you.” (Ephesians 4:29)
Statement
2 (Your words are powerful,
be careful with what you
say) :
“Keep
your tongue from saying evil things and your lips from speaking
deceitful things.” (Psalm 34:13)
Statement
3 (Stop
acting like that, we
aren’t in High School anymore!)
“When
I was a child, I spoke like a child, thought like a child, and
reasoned like a child. When I became an adult, I no longer used
childish ways.” (1 Corinthians
13:11)
How
do we apply those verses to our life?
I’d
like to tell you that it’s easy as 1,2,3 – but it’s not. Let
me rephrase that statement, it’s not easy by ourselves.
We
can master the art of these verses through prayer, combating
the flesh with these verses, and resisting temptation.
So
instead of:
-
calling someone names (no matter what age you are)
-
using vulgar language
-
fighting over petty things in life
-
speaking negative against yourself or against others
… and
much more
-
Saturate yourself with Scripture (memorize the verses listed and/or
other verses)
-
Pray against negativity, for a positive attitude, thank the Father
for His help
-
Don’t be arrogant and stubborn if it comes to you apologizing for
your negative behavior
-
Be willing for God to change your negative mindset to that of
a positive mindset
And
remember this:
The
way you speak is the way you will become.
That’s
why we call it “word power” or “the power of words.
This was so true, I needed to read this today! You know how sibling bickering can be, I need to work on that! ;)
ReplyDeleteOlivia,
DeleteAwe well I'm glad it could provide encouragement to you!
Haha yes I do, and I need to work on it too! ;)
Many blessings,
Alisha