“Flee
also youthful lusts; but pursue righteousness, faith, love, peace,
with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart.”
2 Timothy 2:22
Living
in purity is by far the best way to live your life. God has a
perfect future for you, but sometimes we tend to forget that God
is in control of our life, and go out trying to live for us.
This is very
dangerous...especially
when it involves close friendships with young men. Lets take a look
at an example, then I'll explain what I mean.
Eleven
year old Gracelynn was so excited! She was finally at the age that
her parents said she could have a “boyfriend” and start dating. She couldn't wait until she was asked to go out on a date, finally it
happened! A young boy named Trevor, came to Gracelynn after school
and asked her to go to the movies with him. She said yes and
immensely enjoyed her first date with Trevor. Soon the two became
inseparable! Suddenly Gracelynn's heart was broken. As she was
walking in the hall at school, she noticed Trevor holding hands with
another girl. Soon Trevor came to Gracelynn and dumped her.
Gracelynn's heart is now scared forever!
Did
you notice anything wrong with this example? Let me show you what's
wrong:
First,
an eleven year old young lady should not
be dating (any young lady should not date period), that is just
asking for trouble. Secondly,
having a “boyfriend” is only temporary enjoyment. I'm sure you
have friends that say, “Oh wow, having a boyfriend is so
much
fun!” What they really mean is, “I hope this relationship will
last longer than the previous relationship that I was in.” We as
young ladies don't need to go searching for temporary enjoyment, when
we have God to give us everlasting enjoyment, through His precious
Love Letter (His Word). Last
but not least, dating is another form of divorce! "Oh now you're being just plain silly! Dating is by no means like divorce!" Let's take for
instance Trevor and Gracelynn's situation, shall we!
They enjoyed their
relationship, until Trevor thought that Gracelynn was not good enough
for him, so he dumped her. When a couple gets married they have the
best life together, until they realize their partner has too many
quirks or dislikes. Then they go searching for something
better...this leads to a sometimes nasty divorce.
Give
your heart to the Lord, asking Him to hold it in His strong hands.
Have Him give it to the right person at the right time. It's never
to late! Thankfully we have a God of second chances! Strive to live
a life of purity...you can do it!
Dear
Almighty God, I ask You to help me keep my body, mind, and most
importantly, my heart pure. Lord I ask You to help me avoid all the
youthful lusts that I'm tempted with. Create in me a pure heart, oh
God! Thank you for all that You do in my life. In Christ's name I
pray, amen.
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